Monday, April 26, 2010

The Twenties. Trust.

Trust. Why is it so hard to trust people? I believe the reason is because there is nothing logical about trusting people. There's nothing logical about being completely open and vulnerable with another human being. Ultimately, your taking a leap of faith on a person and entrusting them with your feelings and emotions. You have to build trust with a person and determine their trustworthiness. This is why so many friendships and relationships fail. We either don't know how to build trust or are too quick to trust. How do you build trust? Easy. Rely on your common sense and be patient. We forget that we have to feel trust and experience one's trustworthiness. With time a person will show you whether or not they are trustworthy, it's up to you to decide if you will keep that person in your life or not. We make it difficult to trust because for some odd reason we all forgot that we have to determine if someone is trustworthy before we trust them. Building trust is never difficult, it just requires time. Now rebuilding trust that's difficult. I'll attempt to tackle that topic later.

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