The Twenties. A "Normal" Relationship.

"I just want a normal relationship". I hear this way to often from females around my age group. So I ask: What is a normal relationship? For me, the word normal coincides with the word standard and I don't think their is any standards to any relationship. All relationships have their problems, big or small. Personally, I would die in a normal relationship because their is nothing normal about me. Yes, I'm a mess. I'm pretty sure whoever is reading this is a mess as well. Aren't we all? Again I ask: What is a normal relationship? Is it a relationship with no problems? Not even one? I don't believe it. If your someone reading this thinking well I know so-and-so and she never has a problem in her relationship. Wrong! Either she is lying to you or she doesn't talk as openly about her relationship as you do. Every person in any relationship, whether it be with a male or female, at some point had a problem where they had to decide whether to stay in their relationship or not. So if your that person looking for a "normal relationship" I'm sorry to burst your bubble but it doesn't exist. Being in a relationship comes with some form of stress at some point in time. Now, I'm not saying a relationship should be stressful 24/7, but it will get stressful at times. So, if your the type of person that doesn't handle stress very well then you need to carefully consider if you should be in a relationship until you learn how to better deal with stress. If you are the person that is looking for a normal relationship then you'll be looking for a very long time. Happy Hunting.